Wanda Melchert and Herbert Ongstad Melby-Rogness home, Manfred, ND | Vang Lutheran Church, Manfred | Heimdal ND, former Gigstad farm | Ardell in "Pastors Parking" | Viking Church, Benson Co, ND |
Wednesday morning October 8:
Stayed for the night in Ramada in Bismarck.
Rented a car, going to pick it up at the Bismarck airport. After that I
turn my nose northwards in direction of Fessenden, Manfred and Harvey. Spoke
with several of the relatives by phone last night, Bergquist, Lageson and
Gigstad. After talking to Milo in Glenwood, my phone cards were empty.
With
the North Dakota Roadmap open in the passenger seat, and my pulse speeding above
normal limit, I drove offinto new experiences. At first I felt a bit nervous when
the big lorries passed me like lightening, but after a few miles I got
accustomed to the “traffic picture”. The Toyota broughe me safe trough
Steele,Tuttle and Fessenden. Soon I saw the Manfred sign,
and relief: the building from Wanda’s homepage. I knocked the door, and
a surprised mrs. Melchert went speechless for a few seconds. I shared Wanda’s
lunch sandwiches, and Wanda iasked whether I would accompany her to a Ladies Aid
meeting. – I had not
attended “kvinneforening” since the age of 6, and answered “yes, yes”
immediately. It was a nice visit, all the ladies had Norwegian roots, and once
more I observed the close culture connection between the “new” and the
“old” country. – But ME in
Ladies Aid ? A few lines from Jacob
Sande’s poem “After a booze” came to mind. (excuse poor translation, but mark the middle lines in the righthand
poem....) –
….. Saturday
October 11: I have been living with the Gigstads close to Maddock for the last 3
days. They are really very good people. I felt like I should have known them all
my life. We have been around the local cemeteries, on the homesteads and I have
taken a lot of pictures. Ardell Gigstad, together with son Kevin works a lot of
land around the farm. I forgot to ask about a copy of the PowerPoint
presentation the children had made for the parents silver anniversary.
Thursday evening
son and two daughters with husbands of the younger generation Gigstad came to
meet with their Norwegian cousin. One of the inlaws had his brought his family
tree, and after reading the farmnames of his ancestors, I felt obliged to tell
him that before going to Norway, he had to start training drinking
“applecider” – so now you tell me which district in Norway his family
originated from….
But will the fiddle maker play ?? | Childrens quire | "Sons of Norway" | Gloria found some real atrwork | They know how to lay in America too ! |
When I first spoke to Ardell Gigstad by phone from Norway (Christmas day 2002), he told me: “If you arrive in North Dakota in October, we will go to Norwegian Hostfest in Minot”. And Ardell kept his word! Friday morning (October 10.), we drove into Minot. It was a huge exhibition area, and the hours went very fast. In my eyes the Hostfest was a very commercial event, even during the leikarring’s “Dance of Norwegian Sweaters” they marched big posters behind the dancers, telling in which stand you could grab this knitted goodies. All over there were products of Scandinavian tradition, quite a lot of good, solid handcraft, a couple of stands showing real artwork. We managed to view some shows, Swedish folkmusic, Childrens quire, dancegroup (leikarring) and a couple called “Indian and white Guy” who really made my laughing muscles work, I also had to conclude that Bjøro Håland is “worldfamous in Minot”. At the “Sons of Norway” table I met with Audrey Solheim, another relative. It was close to Saturday when we arrived back in Gigstad farm. I am very grateful for the younger members of family said to me: “It was good you arrived, now our parents got the opportunity to get a day off work”!
I spent some
time wondering why a lot of people came up to me asking: “Hi, where are you
from”? I immediately concluded that they saw I was a real nillbilly from
“the old Country”. Looking closer to the sticker I had placed on my sweater
(part of ticket) it dawned on me that a competition was going on – one had to
search for the Mystery Viking, but
I wasen’t him, oh NO. In the
middle of the day we sat down with a
cup of coffee and lefse, when a couple asked us wether the last 2 chairs at our
table were free. After short time I
understood that the lady had her roots in Hallingdal, and family connections in
Fagernes. (Once more I had to admit that the world is small (but of course, in
Norsk Hostfest a lot of Norwegian genes are walking around on two legs inside a
small space)
towards Sheyenne river, Benson co. ND | Heimdal, Wells Co, ND | It's always sad to say goodbye | Missourieriver at Washburn, ND | Inspection of horses in Bergquist farm |
Time is 5 PM and I have arrived with the Bergquists in Wilton. I managed
to find my way without problems. This
was a coalmining area, today they had open cut mining.
… In the evening we visited the Lewis and Clark center and the L&C
winter camp by the Missouri river. We finished off with a meal in a nice
restaurant.
Emil Bergquist in Wilton Centenial Park | Visit with Corrinne Haadem Pfaff | 4 generations Bergquist | "Is the hanged meat dried yet" ? | my "Horse" in North Dakota |
Back in Wilton Helen had waited for close to one hour for us (we menfolk to easily forget about time), so we started the trip to Bismarck immediately. Bergquists with Buick in front and me following in Montana registered Toyota. Our first visit was to Corrine Haadem Pfaff, who had a lot of information on the brothers Tore and Ola Haadem. We made an agreement that she mailed me a copy of the family-history to my hosts in Glenwood. Emil told us a story from his childhood about his family meeting with Tore Haadem in Tappen, ND back in the 30’s. Next stop was Burger King, then to the Airport to give my rented car back, back to Sons of Norway Park in Bismarck. The bus to Alexandria/Minneapolis was not due to leave for a couple of hours, so I had time to meet with Helen and Emil’s oldest son and family. Soon 4 generations were together. Robert Bergquist had the same ”tone of humor” as Ardell Gigstad and my host Milo, those guys ought to meet !! It looks to me that Emil has been among the first to take care of the ”family-feeling” in our branch up from Heimdal area.